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The secret I wish someone told me years ago
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I need to share something with you today that I wish someone had said to me years ago. It would have saved me so much pain. So much spiraling. So many years of feeling like I was failing at a life I was trying so hard to rebuild. Here it is: You’re not stuck because you’re broken. You’re stuck because your identity is still wired for survival. No one ever taught us this. We grew up thinking that:
But deep down, something still felt off. Like no matter how hard you tried… You always snapped back into the same patterns. I know that because that was my life for years. I didn’t understand that the identity I built to survive wasn’t the identity that would help me truly live. And when your internal identity is wired for chaos, numbness, hiding, shrinking, people pleasing, or over-functioning… It doesn’t matter how much you WANT a different life... your old identity will always pull you back. That’s the part no one talks about. But it’s the part that changed everything for me. Because once I realized the root problem was identity… I finally stopped blaming myself. I finally stopped feeling like a failure. I finally started understanding why nothing else ever worked long-term. This is why I opened 10 spots for 30 days of coaching, where I walk beside you every single day and help you finally break out of the version of you that’s been carrying everything alone. Not more motivation. Not more coping skills. Not more tips that don’t touch the root. Actual identity work. The work I had to learn the hardest way possible. If you’re tired of slipping back into the same patterns… If you’ve been trying so hard to change but keep snapping back… If you feel like you should be further by now… Reply SHIFT and I’ll send you the details. Only 10 spots and once they’re gone, this round is closed. PROUD OF YOU 💙 Walking with you, Leasha P.S. You’re not stuck because you’re failing at growth. You’re stuck because no one ever showed you how to shift your identity. If you feel that, reply SHIFT and I’ll hold one of the spots for you. |
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